**BE WARNED THIS ENTRY CONTATINS DISCUSSION THAT IS NOT SUITABLE FOR THE CONSERVATIVE AT HEART. READ ON AT YOUR OWN RISK** As of late, I've been all into my new found favorite passtime: Netflix. I know I'm late in jumping on the bandwagon, but I'm glad that I did. With my constant need for material to stimulate my creative mental motivations, I find Netflix to be the perfect way to accomplish this. Perfect transition into the true topic of dicussion: Deep Throat. Yep, I just typed what you thought I typed. No typos. No misspelled words. Just simply Deep Throat. I've discussed this briefly in an entry before, but never really got into the topic. I'm not going to get into the actions of dynamic fellatio-giving either, I'm going to remain focused on the film Deep Throat. Of course this film entered theaters before my time; before I was even thought to be conceived, but it was a pivotal film that changed society's view of sex as a whole. Some people may be laughing to themselves, seeing how I write about a piece of pornography so lovingly. Actually, I look at it with an educational eye.
Most people that know me know that I am very much in sync with my sexuality. Always have been really, but recently I was told by one of my friends that I was the "biggest freak" she knows. I sat back and thought about her statement in relation to how society views sex. Though I see myself very educated on the topic of sex, I don't consider myself a "freak". Freak having the connotative meaning of something abnormal, unique, and frowned upon by the majority of society. If I seemed more conservative in my lifestyle & didn't feel as open to speak on sex as freely as I do, I'm sure I would assimilate better....I for one, have never been a fan of direct assimilation. I prefer to express my individuality instead of becoming a mindless drone to the whims of what someone else feels I should do with my life :) *gets off soapbox* I find it funny how double standards still exist in my generation of forward thinking people (I solely am referring to my friends I've made over the years - WE ARE VERY FORWARD THINKING). In conversations with my male friends, some of them consider themselves to at one time or another a "ho". "I used to run through women like socks and drawers". Really?! Glad that you've come to this revelation and evolved as a result. In the same thought, if a woman said the same thing automatically she is considered "loose", "ho-like", or even "promiscuous". Is she not exercising her freedoms to choose how many people she wants to sleep with just as a man would? Sure she's exposing herself & increasing her risks to contract some sexual transmitted infection, but so would a man in the same situation. I'm sure people would give the word "promiscuous" a different view if they understood that medically speaking, more than one sexual partner per year makes an individual promiscuous. See, even got you thinking ;).
The film Deep Throat simply opened up a venue for dialogue so that people could actually discuss the thoughts that were running through their minds. I find it very interesting how controversial it was to depict a woman obtaining sexual pleasure through sexual intercourse or sexual acts. I mean, anyone who has seen even excerps of the flick can say that Linda Lovelace displayed sheer talent when she performed oral sex. It also showed that she ENJOYED what she was doing as much as the guy receiving such oral services. On the flip side, there isn't that much glory surrounding cunnilingus (or the act of tactfully titilating the clitoris). I've had one of my co-workers state that she commends men and women who can do it, because all sorts of secretions REGULARY occur in a woman's "pleasure palace" or "lovely place". This is very correct. Biological processes such as urination, menstruation, and defecation all occur in close proximity of one another. Nonetheless, when none of the aforementioned things are going on, getting up-close & personal with a woman's erogenous gateway to her orgasmic volcanic eruption is a GREAT thing. Most women will tell you that if you can't perform it right, there's no need to waste the time in trying. I feel that some individuals can be shown tips for improvement, and then there are others who are pretty much benchwarmers when it comes to pleasuring the pussy. The carpet-munching community has pity on you, and hopes that one day you too can develop the talent for orally satisfying those vaginal sugar walls. My theory as to why "going downtown" stands in the shadow of fellatio is because you can't really see an individual's tongue work its magic. Fellatio on the other hand, is like watching someone act like the human version of a trombone. There's no way to "deep throat" a clitoris, and if there was...that's not a clitoris, it's a penis & you've been fooled.
